The difference in thinking about children in the East and the West

      For parents in the Asian country. The success of the children as well as their success. Children are going much, worldly, they boast just as they are so. In their thinking, the children not only their own flesh, but also their future. They can sacrifice his life for the welfare of children. They spend their lives just for children. Always eager for their children to be better people, whether they have suffered austerity anyhow. Therefore, the children in the Oriental countries, most of them very heavy filial. They appreciate the parents too much. In life no one better to them than their parents. Nearly all lifelong labor assets of parents are leaving their children. So when elderly parents, sick, sick. Usually they are trying to work, devoted care, take care. That is the definition of traditional Asian culture.

        For the fathers, mothers in Western countries. They also love their children with all your heart, hope we will have a good life. But it is our life. The life of the parents' parents. We have to fight, scramble everything you want in society. Nothing parents would sacrifice so much for their children. Even cash assets of a lifetime labor of their parents can donate to charities all. Their children do not get a penny. Since money is the parents' parents, not yours. Parents have the right to freely use their property at will. Parents have parental own life, not related to the child. No matter they should be obliged to take care of a full life for the child. They mostly have to be independent very early. Those children have traveled around for a living. When elderly parents they do not have conditions in the care and support the elderly. Therefore, most of the elderly in Western countries often live alone, or live in nursing camp brain.
       In thinking of the parents in the East, children are the future of their elderly. Childbirth is to prop up the old or infirm. In thinking of the parents in the western world, a baby is created for social population. Themselves also have formulated very early. They only rely on myself, even when elderly or sick. Action, parental employment in both Eastern and Western cultures are very different. And the results also differ. And in my mind, thinking of Westerners may look cold. But it is a fact of life. Let her live is the most important. All the others are just parts only. Our children, no matter how we love them. There is also the day we will come to love others. What duty of care, taking care of us became very heavy with them. Living can only rely on yourself is true, even when a child or later in life!
                                                                                       Author: P. T. H

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